nothing can complete you

It is time to remind myself about something I told my friend some months ago.
Sometimes we make ourselves believe that we need more to feel complete or
to feel happy. People, objects, emotions- it could be anything. But that’s not so. The reality of my life or anyone’s is that what ever you need, life
has already given it to you. If you feel something is not there or cannot sense something, probably you have no need for it. Really, there is nothing lacking
in you for someone to come and complete. Just consider this, if you truly don’t have love , then how can you even offer it to others? If you crave love,
does it mean you are empty of love? Do you expect someone to come fill your heart with love, so that you can give that same love in return? No, you love
because you already have that emotion in you. And so when someone doesn’t reciprocate your love with love, let it not lead you to a sense of incompleteness
or despair. Instead know that before wanting someone’s attention, you need to first love yourself and be at peace with yourself. Only when there is love
in your life, a completeness with yourself, can you understand and see love. Else when it comes you won’t even be able to recognize it.