Showing posts with label My computer my world. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My computer my world. Show all posts

Monday, August 2, 2010

cyber love, does it work?

As we all know that internet has already taken us lots of benefits. We can do the things that we can’t image before. Like some of my friends says, “we will not live without internet.” Of course we can study and gain the latest news and relax ourselves and communicate with our friends or strangers through the internet, but there are other things as well which are being done very frequently, one of those things is cyber love.
Many people want to make friends from the internet, so they always chat online. In the first place, the people who sit before the internet do not know each other. And then they can talk everything freely. Therefore some of them will fall in love with the net friend after talking for a long period.
If a single is deep into their religion they will be able to share their beliefs instantly with conflicting singles. This saves time either prior to a relationship that has started or even worse after it has started, of having to explain their religious beliefs to a new partner. Although not the worse thing
in the world to tell someone, it by all accounts could come as a bit of a shock to a small minority.

Senior singles are also enjoying the benefits of their adventures of finding cyber love. There’s no it’s essential to have for them to get out and about
any more, they have all they require good at their fingertips. They’re giving younger generations a lesson in going after what they want, and getting it.

Cyber love gives singles the chance to find love across oceans and seas as well. There’s no boundaries, they don’t have to find another single in the local
stop. Long distance relationships have expanded ten fold since to launch of online dating. Singles no longer limit themselves to local dating when the
total world is favorable at their keyboard. The world has many beautiful countries, so there’s no conflicting easier cleverness to explore them than online.


Some says cyber love is as pretty as fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up. Though personally I’m not a buff of cyber relationship, but still, I won’t say that I don’t trust on them.
I know, the cyber love is a whole different approach, but I’ve never experienced it as of now, so don’t know how does it work.
What I could understand from a few experience of my friends, that In order to succeed with Internet dating, an online romantic interest should be seen as a potential dating partner. Once it is established that there is
a potential for a relationship, the focus should shift to meeting on the phone and then meeting in person wherever possible.


There is a difference between reality and virtuality. We people all live in the real word and we should face the reality. But when you feel tired and when you have pressure
you can find your internet friends to say out what you can not speak to your friends
around you.
Everything has its limit,so as cyber relations too.
You need to be honest and trustworthy from your end, and mindful too at the same time.
Like any serious love relation, you should give a deep consideration before falling into cyber love as well.
be a judge for your own, before you pamper into any dilemma.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

True, not everyone is a friend.

Today when so many people we barely know are “friends” on our social networking sites, I am reminded of an episode long time ago. I think I was in class 4 or 5. I knew a girl in my class who I rarely interacted with. She had her own set of friends, belonged to a different state, spoke a different language, and had nothing in common with me. We sat in opposite corners of the classroom. She was short and I was tall, and thus never even stood close to each other in those queues we made during the assembly. The only time I heard her name and her voice was when the teacher took the class attendance every morning and I heard her “present ma’am”.

It so happened that my father happened to know her father, which we discovered accidentally. My father had to go meet her father for some work and asked me if I would like to tag along and visit my friend. I was not very excited at the thought of it and hence decided to stay home.

The rest of the story, we heard from my father. He was at their place when my friend entered to say hi. My father smiled and asked her if she knew he was her school friend’s father. To which she smiled and said yes, and corrected my father saying “Although he is not a friend, he is a classmate”.

My father was very intrigued with the wisdom of a 11 year old. When I heard this, I was angry at first, but later realized that what she said was not to demean or insult me, she just spoke the truth. We must have barely spoken 3 times in school, sat at different corners, never shared or food, never hung out with the same set of friends, and had nothing in common.

Years later, I still appreciate the wisdom of what she said. We use the word “friend” in very general terms, referring to anyone we meet in the train, work with, go to school with, are neighbors with, or even study in the same class with. You go to a class with classmates, go to work with colleagues, and so on. Friend cannot be a generalized word used to describe classmates, colleagues, or contacts. Someone who is not a friend doesn’t necessarily have to be an enemy. But not everyone you are civil to and in good terms with is a friend.

On the same note, it would be interesting to have categories like classmates, colleagues, contacts, neighbors, relatives, etc. on these social networking sites. True, not everyone is a friend.