cyber love, does it work?

As we all know that internet has already taken us lots of benefits. We can do the things that we can’t image before. Like some of my friends says, “we will not live without internet.” Of course we can study and gain the latest news and relax ourselves and communicate with our friends or strangers through the internet, but there are other things as well which are being done very frequently, one of those things is cyber love.
Many people want to make friends from the internet, so they always chat online. In the first place, the people who sit before the internet do not know each other. And then they can talk everything freely. Therefore some of them will fall in love with the net friend after talking for a long period.
If a single is deep into their religion they will be able to share their beliefs instantly with conflicting singles. This saves time either prior to a relationship that has started or even worse after it has started, of having to explain their religious beliefs to a new partner. Although not the worse thing
in the world to tell someone, it by all accounts could come as a bit of a shock to a small minority.

Senior singles are also enjoying the benefits of their adventures of finding cyber love. There’s no it’s essential to have for them to get out and about
any more, they have all they require good at their fingertips. They’re giving younger generations a lesson in going after what they want, and getting it.

Cyber love gives singles the chance to find love across oceans and seas as well. There’s no boundaries, they don’t have to find another single in the local
stop. Long distance relationships have expanded ten fold since to launch of online dating. Singles no longer limit themselves to local dating when the
total world is favorable at their keyboard. The world has many beautiful countries, so there’s no conflicting easier cleverness to explore them than online.


Some says cyber love is as pretty as fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up. Though personally I’m not a buff of cyber relationship, but still, I won’t say that I don’t trust on them.
I know, the cyber love is a whole different approach, but I’ve never experienced it as of now, so don’t know how does it work.
What I could understand from a few experience of my friends, that In order to succeed with Internet dating, an online romantic interest should be seen as a potential dating partner. Once it is established that there is
a potential for a relationship, the focus should shift to meeting on the phone and then meeting in person wherever possible.


There is a difference between reality and virtuality. We people all live in the real word and we should face the reality. But when you feel tired and when you have pressure
you can find your internet friends to say out what you can not speak to your friends
around you.
Everything has its limit,so as cyber relations too.
You need to be honest and trustworthy from your end, and mindful too at the same time.
Like any serious love relation, you should give a deep consideration before falling into cyber love as well.
be a judge for your own, before you pamper into any dilemma.

when friend turns into lover

I had always been a great admirer of friendship and have treated it the most wonderful endowment by god.
While it’s the most difficult job of the world to defined what friendship is, life becomes extremely easy and enjoyable by the presence of friends.
Specially, true friends are top on the cards and they are someone you can share all the happiness and sorrows, dance for them, cry for them, help them without expecting for any acknowledgement, call them whenever you feel it like, scold them for no reason to something extremely serious, spend hours with them, yet feel like scarcity of time, trust them even after living remotely, someone who’s tears hurts, someone who’s smile relishes, so on, so on, and so on.
As I said, it’s just not possible for anyone to define what those good/true friends are.
So, it’s always great to have such friends in your life, but what if the friend is of opposite sex?
Ok, it doesn’t matter much, but while the chemistry with you and the other person is cooking nicely, many a times the friendship starts converting to a feeling of love.
There isn’t any problem to have your best/true friend as a lover, but here, the problem is not why should you love him/her, it’s about how to assure yourself whether that’s the love, and most importantly, how to express the same to the person.
While you claim that you have a nice understanding with your friend, you find it almost impossible to figure out whether the other person too feels love for you or it’s just a pure friendship.
Expressing your love to someone is itself not a easy job, but if you need to express it to a best/true friend, it’s certainly one of the hardest things.
Milians of questions bumps in mind like
Is it the love really that I’m feeling?
Does the person too love me?
Should I express it to him/her?
What if the person doesn’t feel the same and refuse?
How would I bare if the expression of love will create complications in our nice friendship?

There may be lots of such questions which hovers around, and you find yourself in bewildered state of mind.
The biggest fear is about losing the current friendship in case of refusal from his/her side, and this is what I’d like to point in here.

I just would like to ask a simple and straight forward question,
How to express your love to a very good/best/true friend, considering the scenario I’ve given above?
How to make sure that there won’t be any problem in your current friendship even if the person refuses the proposal?

Or, what do you think, shouldn’t one express his/her feeling of love to that friend?
you can write your answer in comments section, it may help a lot of folks including me!

True, not everyone is a friend.

Today when so many people we barely know are “friends” on our social networking sites, I am reminded of an episode long time ago. I think I was in class 4 or 5. I knew a girl in my class who I rarely interacted with. She had her own set of friends, belonged to a different state, spoke a different language, and had nothing in common with me. We sat in opposite corners of the classroom. She was short and I was tall, and thus never even stood close to each other in those queues we made during the assembly. The only time I heard her name and her voice was when the teacher took the class attendance every morning and I heard her “present ma’am”.

It so happened that my father happened to know her father, which we discovered accidentally. My father had to go meet her father for some work and asked me if I would like to tag along and visit my friend. I was not very excited at the thought of it and hence decided to stay home.

The rest of the story, we heard from my father. He was at their place when my friend entered to say hi. My father smiled and asked her if she knew he was her school friend’s father. To which she smiled and said yes, and corrected my father saying “Although he is not a friend, he is a classmate”.

My father was very intrigued with the wisdom of a 11 year old. When I heard this, I was angry at first, but later realized that what she said was not to demean or insult me, she just spoke the truth. We must have barely spoken 3 times in school, sat at different corners, never shared or food, never hung out with the same set of friends, and had nothing in common.

Years later, I still appreciate the wisdom of what she said. We use the word “friend” in very general terms, referring to anyone we meet in the train, work with, go to school with, are neighbors with, or even study in the same class with. You go to a class with classmates, go to work with colleagues, and so on. Friend cannot be a generalized word used to describe classmates, colleagues, or contacts. Someone who is not a friend doesn’t necessarily have to be an enemy. But not everyone you are civil to and in good terms with is a friend.

On the same note, it would be interesting to have categories like classmates, colleagues, contacts, neighbors, relatives, etc. on these social networking sites. True, not everyone is a friend.