a friend in need, is friend in deed

A friend in need, is friend indeed.
We’ve been told this quotation from our foundation classes. Though i used to copy the same in many essays at that time, but when I came in real consciousness, I always used to ponder that won’t you call the person friend who doesn’t helps you in stretched position?
If really, then i’ll conjecture it selfishness. in fact I remember that one of my best friends used to be very weak in studies, and he has never helped me in any point of my life at that time, yet we were very good friends, and even still the friendship continues.
On the other hand, a lot of guys have helped me until now in different stages of life, but they are not more then classmates, colleagues or proverbials. Thus, I stalwartly resist the quotation which is consist of self-centeredness.
indeed, friendship is a feeling that comes from the depth of the heart, it’s a gracious gift given by all mighty, it’s an element that keeps you blissful, and all that.
Is it a good idea to connect this righteous legacy from meager self-seeking beliefs?
Is it a good idea to exchange deals in it like businesses?
No, and a resounding no.
The friendship is a highly consecrated and emotional relation which is beyond to all the other relations exists on the earth.
Some also says that ass may also be minister in the time of requirement. If so, what would be the difference between ass and your friend?
I’m not refuting that friends should not help each others, but what I combat is that the criteria of choosing must be your true subterranean personage feeling which comes from the very corner of your heart rather then narcissism.
The friendship should be gallant where you can budge without having expectation, and I personally do not support to make friends only because they will help me in harsh circumstances.
No, the friend is a most excellent endowment we’ve been given by god, and it’s indubitably a disregard treating it narcissistic.
I can’t do it, and if you still can do it without considering on the things I’ve enlightened above, you’re salutable, and perhaps it will take long for you to understand what is life even.
I am neither trying to transport any ethical lesson, nor forcing my opinion.
It’s totally on your personal thoughts and opinion that what you belief, but I resist the quotation, and as I’ve spoke that much, you obviously know why.